Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Cupid's Secrets to Staying in Love

As a great way to kick off www.lovebittz.com, we decided to interview the master of love, Cupid.

Lovebittz – Cupid, what is one bit of advice that you can pass on to couples currently in a relationship that may be feeling a bit mundane or ordinary?

Cupid – Well, I can honestly say that it's the small day to day interaction that helps keep partners feelings away from ordinary or mundane.    Sincere compliments that come from your heart can mean more to your partner than most anything else.  "SINCERE" being the key!!!  Words hold more power than what we were told as children (sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me) – HA, what a crock!

Lovebittz – When couples are first hit with your arrow, they seem to be very kind to each other… almost cautious.  What advice can you give to new couples that have not experienced this yet?

Cupid - Understanding your partner and what is important to them can really amplify their feelings positively or negatively.  Having something said to us in an unkind way can be the first of many blows that create negative feelings.  When most people first fall in love or become involved, they tend to watch what they say and be more complimentary.  As time passes, the compliments tend to slow to a crawl and we become less cautious of our partners feelings.   I would give my loin cloth to hear something nice about me from my love everyday!

Lovebittz – Can you give us an example of what you've seen from some of the most historically loving relationships and marriages?

Cupid – There have been so many truly loving relationships throughout history that it would be impossible to point to just one.  But what has withheld the test of time is kindness to one another.  Just "bittz" of love each and every day drenched in honesty and sincerity!

Lovebittz – Would you like to contribute thoughts and articles to lovebittz.com to further help the love between couples grow?

Cupid – Hmmm…

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